Companionship Consultant

Trevor James

Connection, and Companionship for discerning men.


Man On A Mission

“With a focus on touch, connection, companionship and community, I seek to help rebalance your life through the touch and connection of cuddle therapy, and massage therapy; the connection and companionship of a platonic social companionship; the connection and companionship of private tours; and the connection and community of intimate events. Touching the world one person at a time.” - Trevor James

Our initial consultation is designed to highlight where you could do with more touch, connection, companionship and community in your life, and will develop a blueprint and plan of action to move forward. Alternatively, you could go right ahead and book one of the à la carte services.

You know who you are. So do I.

 You're an affluent, influential man and love the finer things in life, but you’re touch- and affection-deprived, trying to keep up with your insane schedule. You live an amazing life, yet crave companionship with someone you can connect with - someone who can make you smile; someone who really listens to you; someone you can comfortably bring into your circles without raising eyebrows; someone who brings a richness of life that can complement yours. Basically, you’re missing connection and companionship that come with touch, affection and community. If this sounds like you, contact me for a free initial consultation or book one of my à la carte services. Together, we will identify the ways we can re-balance your life and improve your happiness quotient.

‘Touch deprivation’ is a thing (it really is).

In today’s fast-paced world, we often forget the importance of human touch, connection, companionship and community. As humans, we need affection and touch and the lack of it leads to what experts variously call ‘touch deprivation’ or ‘skin hunger’. Even though we have an innate need to connect, many of us frequently feel alone. It’s possible you’re probably one of the people surrounded by others throughout the day—or in a long-term relationship— but still experience a deep and pervasive loneliness. (See infographic).

Men are more likely to suffer from touch deprivation than women because of stronger social prohibitions against even non-sexual, same-sex touching among adult males.

The easiest way to fix touch deprivation is for you to touch and encourage touch and expressions of affection from family members and friends. However, some people lack close relationships, or find touching friends awkward or uncomfortable.

An example of a good way to increase touch is through massage therapy. Massage provides not only the therapeutic kneading of muscles, but also skin contact with another person. Platonic cuddle therapy is another way to get more human touch. Sharing activities with a buddy also helps create connection and community.


I’m here for you.

I’m here to help alleviate your touch- and affection-deprivation. Whether you want me to be your massage therapist, cuddle therapist, platonic social companion, travel companion, personal tour guide - it’s all about connection, companionship and male bonding. Stress, anxiety, sleep loss, depression, and loneliness are part of the human condition, but sometimes all you need is a companion to hold, share your feelings with, have meaningful conversations, play video games, read books, receive/give massages, go out to dinner and a movie, and even travel the world to feel your spirit come alive again.

What you really want is intelligent conversation (or silly banter); a listening ear; an activity partner, who has refinement, adaptability, and understands male bonding. The value of my service is the strength of the personal bond and the special moments in your life that we share together. My goal is to provide the companionship, emotional connection and social anchor that an otherwise real boyfriend would bring. My friends call it The Boyfriend Experience.

Let’s get together and see if we’re a good fit to work together! Book a free initial consultation now.


Make A Connection

Book a free consultation to assess if we will be a good fit to work together and develop an action plan to re-balance your life.